I hope everyone had a great Saturday. I know I did. I just hate that the weekend is half over. This is going to be an extremely busy week for me and I’m not looking forward to it.
Tomorrow I am scheduled to go with my dad for his consultation about radiation therapy. My dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer last week and has elected to go with daily radiation therapy as his treatment. The doctor said that they had caught the cancer early and luckily it is a “slow moving non-aggressive form” of cancer. Now to me, cancer is cancer. But I do know from nearly two decades in the medical field, that most people die of old age rather than from the prostate cancer itself, but it’s still cancer. And this is my dad. My hero. He is supposed to be bullet-proof.
Like almost all guys, my dad is the greatest man I know. He is the hardest working man I have ever met. He had a vasectomy on his lunch break and went back to work. So, as I sat next to him in the office waiting for the doctor to come in and give us treatment options, and I noticed my dad’s hands trembling, well, I was speechless. I didn’t know what say. Suddenly, the man who has always been a source of my strength, looked at me for guidance.
The doctor finally came and laid out all the treatment options to my dad. My dad’s first question, “how long will I be off work’? The man was just diagnosed with friggin’ cancer and all he is worried about is missing work and letting someone else down. But that’s the kind of man my dad is. After much debate, and against my better judgement, he chose daily radiation therapy treatments. I wanted him to have it completely removed. So tomorrow we go to get the information and scheduling options. They said that it’s a daily treatment for eight weeks and that this “should” take care of it.
I love my dad with all my heart and I’m not ready to give him up quite yet. I’m praying and believing that God is going to heal him. Please keep my dad in your prayers. I would really appreciate it. As a society, we need to do whatever we can to help find a cure for this horrible disease. Cancer affects millions every year. If you can afford to give to research, please give. You never know who it might be helping. I’m just sayin’.